8-17-2025 MY FAVES: complicated feelings

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books of the week

this week i finished up the year of magical thinking. i often tell my clients, "there's no handbook to handle grief". it's so personal and intimate. but when you read about it, it feels collective and familiar. 

i read some vanity fair from 2023 boyfriend found at home and gave. then i began the iconic croatian series grička vještica, (the witch from grič) - book one is called tajna krvavog mosta (the secret of the bloody bridge). this series is the most famous one by the first female journalist of croatia, marija jurić zagorka. it has elements of mystery, mythology, and history. 

 
movies of the week

sib and i watched  he's just not that into you, and it kind of set up the week's mood in a very "men ain't shit" kind of way. apologies to boyfriend ahead of time, but this mood will stay until he buys me sushi.

music of the week

five recent saves on my playlist:
baby, i love your way - big mountain
slow down - skip marley, h.e.r.
dolls - theus oli, bratz
let's get loud - jlo
diet pepsi - ben platt version

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