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7-19-2026 MY FAVES: rockstars, self-help, blonde ambition

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  what i'm reading... i finished the book the magic years (scenes from rock and roll) . i enjoyed the deep dive of martin scorsese's start in film! the author, jonathan taplin, is another ohioan from shaker heights. i feel like he contributes a lot to the whole "birthplace of rock and roll", and my next hall of fame visit i'll be searching for his name around... the author's message was strong and hopeful for the future of the arts in america's harsh political climate. i began reading the subtle art of not giving a fuck , a totally millennial self-help book written by a blogger mark manson. often found in many book recommendations (probs was a popular one during the buzzfeed era of the internet).  the book was published in 2016 and it's funny how it truly feels a bit outdated. the author uses language witty for the time of millennial internet sarcasm. while i cringed for most of chapter one, the message beneath the simple buzzwords is still very accura...

7-19-2026 MY INSPO: style icon - squid

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in the ocean of scrolls, i dove deep into the profile of  squid , an artist that dresses like fish . i was enamored by the number of layers and color are styled, and each one kind of works, in a fun strange way. squid describes how each layer and color plays into a colorful or tropical fish anatomy, almost biologically accurate. below are some examples of how squid dresses like fish: amanda's flasher wrasse galaxy koi betta this is the first video i discovered blue star leopard wrasse reminds me of a grace jones look harlequin filefish rainbow sea slug rainbow trout naturally, i got inspired to try and do a hypothetical styling based on fish. i only know one type of fish, which is a blue betta fish , and that's because sib and i owned one a couple years ago, called swimothy  (rest in peace) a fully blue base, with a flowy blouse underneath this asymmetrical helmut lang dress. possible extra layering added with a blue floral skirt with a bit of frill at the hem. denim purse wit...

7-19-2026 MY WEEK: perfect day

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a perfect day in lake county i read this partnered substack article from  veronica beard  with the authors describing their ideal day in various parts of new england. i craved for traveling while reading the publication. travel, however, is not in the budget at the moment (if i'm trying to plan the most perfect wedding of my life). instead, i decided to do the most frugal and economically responsible thing. to romanticize my lake county  as if it is just as good as nantuc ket. come spend a perfect day in lake county: - wake up early to go to the saturday farmers market in downtown willoughby - coffee and a bagel at fiona's - a lavender matcha or coconut mocha will do - both iced please! - walk through dtw, checking out some local stores, such as enchanted grove. drive out to antiques and uniques, window shop until hungry. - sushi lunch at ninja sushi in mentor on the lake - pool or beach. i usually choose my neighborhood pool, but an afternoon at fairport harbor sounds id...

7-12-2026 MY FAVES: classic hits and pumped up kicks

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  what i'm reading... a continuation of the magic years.  i am totally blaming busy summertime schedule for dragging this book along. or maybe i just don't care about bob dylan and the band's progress in the 60s and 70s?  what i'm listening to... this week i revisited the native ohioan foster the people  album torches  from 2011.  the album really starts off strong with some banging hits, in my opinion. the first song, helena beat  is one of my all-time fave songs. it is one of those eargasm songs for me, and i enjoy listening to this one on repeat.  the first time i heard pumped up kicks  was on a croatian radio station ' otvoreni radio ' that only played "international" hits. unfamiliar with "gun culture" of the western world, i first fell in love with the beat, not realizing the harsh irony in the lyrics. mind you, i grew up in an environment where most kids had guns in their households, yet every bomb threat caused eye roll and guessing w...

7-12-2026 MY INSPO: best of june and insta color combos

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  best of: june june was such an insanely busy and fun month. my croset had its moment too, and i was really excited about the european fashion.  here's top 10 fave looks of june . it was hard only choosing 10! 6/14 engagement dinner 6/30 work 6/29 work 6/25 coffee date with parents 6/23 hookah bar + croatia vs panama game 6/21 wedding 6/20 theater and cocktails with mom 6/19 klapa concert 6/7 fashiontalks runway show 6/6 loconti gig at cebar's instagram color combos a month or so ago, sib sent me some reels by this styling influencer, anastasiia.preston , who comes up with different styling combinations and tips. here's how i followed the video on styling  dresses/gowns + accessories  in different color schemes. i diverge from just dresses and gowns, as i don't have dresses in each color mentioned: "navy with silver is the expected choice, but navy with cognac is more luxurious" helmut lang navy asymmetrical dress. ralph lauren snakeskin heels. vintage navy b...