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3-29-2026 MY WEEK: city girl guide

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  this week i share my travelogue  of sib and mine weekend trip to the columbus' suburbia. my work bestie recommended sib and i do a weekend trip and visit westerville, a quaint suburb of columbus. sib and i aching to get out the house after such a winter hibernation, we booked a hotel there and decided to leave friday after work, then spend a full day and leave on sunday. while it's not fully spring yet and the first night and morning were cold, no snow or rain caught us at all.  day #1 left a bit late because sib's work dragged on. got a mcdonalds fish filet sandwich and we rode into the sunset, arriving at dusk. as we check in, the front desk girl mentioned a "heated pool". sib and i perked up. neither brought bathing suits. we usually don't utilize amenities and seldom get a hotel that even has a pool. so we drag ourselves to target to grab some necessities, including flip flops and bathing suits. i dreaded every moment of spending for stuff i know i have ...

3-29-2026 MY FAVES: women with balls and reality thoughts

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  what i'm watching... does it count that i passively watch sib and her hilarious snapchat commentary on gospodin savrÅ¡eni ?  sib and i were not raised on trashy reality tv. we weren't allowed to watch big brother  in the 2010s, never had cable to keep up with the kardashians, we only got a glimpse later on in high school when we had no internet curfew. but we remember it being scandalous  and barely censored. the few reality shows (croatian farma - celebrities are stuck on a farm with no outside world connection) we watched - had sex scenes, uncensored cussing, and the night camera to even catch annoying snores and forbidden fondling.  sib and i laughed during this week's episodes of  gospodin savrÅ¡eni , modesty culture ruined trashy reality tv too. could it be for the best? that a bachelor only kisses a girl 29 episodes in, is absolutely courteous, and here we are clutching our pearls at the other bachelor who keep insinuating he has a boner every episode...

3-29-2026 MY INSPO: zen to the max and maxing out the card

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  zen-x vibes a switch up from last few entries, where i was inspired by the sleaziness of the 2000s. this week i got inspired by the total opposite: zen-x . think gen-x soft club in a yoga studio. what would a 90s yoga studio and juice bar look like and sound? as trend forecasters predicted the rise of vintage athleisure, fitness girlies passed on coordinated lululemon sets and hunted fila, kappa, and puma reminiscent of the 90s. frequently my tiktok feed provides me aesthetic moodboards with a moby song in the background - 90s minimalism, sheer and flowy layers, usually in pastel tones, and 90s decor.  according to the consumer aesthetics research institute (cari)   zen-x is defined as the following: popular with gen-x and some baby boomers; this aesthetic emerged in the early 1990s, part of the 'natural-organic' shift away from 1980s excess and a resurgent wave of environmentalism (eg. sting in the rainforest, the corporate eco-responsibility trend made famous by compa...