PeSuit and Tie

  my birthday was this friday, and do i have a wishlist. this list varies from the simplest items, to more versatile and heftier price tags. what can i say, i'm a shopaholic, and my closet is my investment.  here's some items and brands that i would love to have in my possession, almost literally from a to z ... a girl can only wish, right? a gent provocateur lingerie b lack loafers c hanel sunglasses d emonia creepers e mbroidery kit f ornasetti tie g imaguas annamaria bag h ardkoo t shirt i  told ya t shirt j acquemus designs k arla špetić designs l a perla lingerie m arilyn monroe coasters n ameplate necklace p hone charm r alph lauren cotton white t shirt s ocial media seriously harms your mental health phone case t  label satin bra u niqlo cotton white t shirt v erameat jewelry (particularly rings but i'm not picky) w atch with leather band x -girl brand y ohji yamamoto designs 16 arlington designs i actually did get an embroidery kit  and phone charms...

  last week, i was scrolling mindlessly when a croatian facebook page posted a photo of remembrance for žu ži jelinek  a croatian/hungarian fashion designer, columnist, and sex guru - as it was her birthday on the 17th. basically, the first carrie bradshaw. as a child i was interested in tabloids, and adult pop culture stuff, and i always wanted to read fashion magazines at cousins' homes, etc.  žu ži was frequently on tv, and was an old lady at the time, but still controversial. in later history and during the time i heard of her, she was known to be an expert on relationships, sex, and had a column not much different than what carrie bradshaw would have - in the magazine gloria  - where she was also an editor. my mom never bought fashion magazines but would occasionally watch tabloid shows. she was never a fan of  žu ži.  seeing the name  žu ži years later, almost 10 years after her passing, i realized, i didn't know nearly enough about this woman, b...